From Davie-Blue Bacich:

There is a raw tenderheartedness that comes with choosing to care more than is required… My wish…is that we grow to find pleasure in the painful softness that comes from awakening. To allow the uncertainty required for peace. The slowness, the aches and pains, the shock and awe, the acknowledgment that what once was cannot continue (because it just hurts too much). To revel in this open-heart, this wound of reception …this is where our love becomes an active source of magnificence, courage and clarity. I think, maybe. 

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